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Ready for the new year

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Written by Administrator, on 12-06-2007 09:25

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I say this every year and every year I mean it:  I can’t believe it’s only 3 weeks until Christmas.  What happened to my 2007? 

 

It seems like just yesterday I was marveling at my mother-in-law’s collection of Sterno cans, batteries, plastic sheeting and bottled water, accumulated in preparation for the apocalypse expected to occur at 12:01 AM, January 1, 2000, when every computer in the world would crash and airplanes fall from the sky, our banking system lose everyone’s money and microwave ovens spontaneously explode.

 

In 2000 we welcomed our second baby, Chris, to the family.  He was such a beautiful baby – perfect.  His eyes were strikingly deep blue and testified to his intelligence as he discerned the world around him.  He would watch closely the movement of my lips when I spoke to him, as though processing how it was I made these various sounds.  Indeed, when he did begin to speak, it was with clarity, amazing imagination and a well developed vocabulary.

 

2001-2002 saw big changes for us.  My mother-in-law passed away, leaving us her apocalypse provisions; the company Chuck worked for was bought by another and they let most of their corporate officers go, including him.  We stood at that fork in the road and I supported his decision to take the path less travelled.  What a bumpy road it has been!  Bootstrapping a business is not for the feint-hearted.  In addition to the job change, we (and our wonderful insurance company) endured a $150,000 mold remediation to our house, then sold it and downsized our lives. 

 

2002-2006 are the dark years for me as I struggled with depression and progressive reclusion.  The change in lifestyle of not only leaving my own career to be a stay-at-home mom, but with the financial instability and struggles that go along with starting a company have taken their toll on me mentally and physically. 

            We started home schooling in the fall of 2003 and, frankly, it wasn’t my idea.  However, after meeting lots and lots of home schooling families, lots and lots of prayers and research into curriculum, the decision was made.  Although it hasn’t always been easy or fun or even consistent, it has been an amazing experience to teach the boys to read, do math and learn about God’s creation and how things work – and HIStory!  Our favorite subject is history.

 

In 2007 I decided being a recluse was not healthy for me and especially not healthy for the boys, so we joined a general co-op and I organized a history co-op to meet weekly.  I’ve put a priority on getting the boys out of the house often and we’ve switched to a more demanding curriculum.  It’s been the best year ever.

 

Now the end of the year is closing in and, for the first time this decade, I’m really looking forward to what the next year has in store.   Oh, and should an asteroid hit the earth, or the active volcano called Yellowstone National Park blow her top, we’re ready.  We’ve got a fine collection of Sterno cans, plastic sheeting and batteries.

 

Let it come.

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It's Raining, It's Pouring and the Old Man is Snoring

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Written by Administrator, on 01-15-2007 06:30

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It's raining sleet, in fact.  And the whole house is snoring.  Today is Day 8 of my new sleep schedule, where I get to bed by 10PM and am up at 3:30AM, and it’s going swimmingly.  I’ve grown to cherish my blissfully quiet morning hours, and I'm equally jealous of my sleep hours.

The rest of the family is growing accustomed to the schedule, too.  Chuck’s been handling the boys’ bedtime book reading and then I make my appearance to “tuck” them in.  After that, if they venture down the hall to our room for anything besides a life-threatening emergency, they face the Wrath of Mommy. 

 

It used to be that, sometime after the boys had been tucked-in for the night, Alex would send his scout down the hall to see if they could come and sleep in our room.  You see, Alex perceives that Chris, at 6, has already honed the art of argument and is able to construct such a convincing – if illogical – filibuster, that Chuck and I often relent due to utter mental fatigue.

 

But now, with my new sleep deprivation schedule, the boys are quickly learning that Mom and, to some extent, Dad have adopted a zero tolerance stance toward bedtime stonewalling.  Oh, they might still pad down the hall to test the waters of Mommy Meanness, but they come as a pair now.  Alex is far too good a kid to throw his little brother into that lake without a life-vest.  The good news is that, regardless of whether their attempts are met with a bellow (GET   BACK TO   BED!!!!!!) or hissed through gritted teeth (get.  back. to.  bed.), they no longer cower in fear and peer at me as though they’re seeing the very face of Beelzebub.

 

I think this is going to work.

  

 

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How Many Ways Can You Spell Zzzzz?

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Written by Administrator, on 01-09-2007 08:33

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I ran across an article, I don't remember where, about the use of sleep deprivation to treat depression. 

 

What?  Sleep deprivation to treat depression?  The article caught my attention because a) I’ve been suffering mild to moderate depression for the past several years and b) the concept is contrary to everything I'd ever heard about sleep and depression. 

 

Haven’t we all been drilled on the importance of getting 8-9 hours of sleep every night, and the damaging side effects associated with any less?  I’m a contrarian by nature and skeptical of most “widely held” beliefs, so the subject was begging me to do a little research.


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I'm Back!!

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Written by Administrator, on 01-08-2007 07:55

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Happy New Year!  I've been gone so long I nearly forgot how to login and update my blog!  This entry is random "stuff," just a warm-up practice to exercise an atrophied muse.

We're trying to get back into a routine after a long holiday.  Our mid-semester break begins  Thanksgiving week and ends after the New Year's week.  We weren't scheduled to start school again until today, but because I enrolled us in a new co-op, we started last Tuesday. 

I've decided that our break is too long.  By the time school starts up again, we're not feeling energized, but rather confused.  It's hard to pick up where we left off in our studies after so long a stretch.  So, I think that, for 2007-2008 I'm going to break our 36 weeks of school into 4 9-week chunks.  This is consistent with the "year round" school schedule and gives us ample time without burn-out.

I checked-out, from the library, "The Well Educated Mind" by Susan Wise Bauer.  In it, Bauer guides her reader through literature selections consistent with the "Classical" education you might not have received.  If you remember, we've structured our home school around the "trivium" based on the book "The Well Trained Mind," written by Jessie Wise and Susan Wise Bauer. 

It's such a wonderful book that I went ahead and ordered it from Barnes and Noble, along with the first 2 books on the reading list:  "Don Quixote" and "The Pilgrim's Progress."  We are already reading an abridged (for kids) version of Pilgrim's Progress that the boys are totally loving.  Bauer provides instruction on how to read a book, as well.  She provides an annotaded reading list for each of the major literary genres:  Fiction, Biography, Poetry, Screen/Stage, and Historical non-fiction.

I didn't make any New Year's resolutions.  Historically, my "resolutions" have given way to "resignations" where, despite all my hopes and plans for the year, I've resigned myself to the reality that:  1)  I ain't gonna lose that weight, 2)  I ain't gonna stick to an exercise program, 3)  I'm a born procrastinator, 4)  my house is still a mess.  I think that covers it, my "2007 New Year's Resignations."

Of course, I'm still hoping this year will be different.

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Blog Hiatus

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Written by Administrator, on 10-15-2006 15:51

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Dear Reader,

Whether you've stumbled upon this site by accident or have arrived by intent, I bid you welcome!

If you follow the links along the right side of this page, you will find some 150 articles, stories, musings, whatever-you-want-to-call-them; enough to keep you idly engaged for a fair piece of your workday.  Enjoy. 

If you're an atheist, agnostic, skeptic or simply consider yourself spiritual, please take a few minutes and accept the Gospel Challenge in the top-of-the-page menu.

In addition to the stuff available to any casual surfer, there's a secret stash of tidbits (but just a few) available by logging into Gooblink.  Don't worry, I won't pester you about sending money to support my kids' college funds, or start e-mailing, or in any way acknowledge your presence.  You will simply have access to more personal information about me as well as excerpts from the stories, novel(s), or other works-in-progress.  As regards these WIPs, I eagerly invite your comments and critiques. 

Which brings me to this:  I'm interrupting this psuedo-regularly scheduled blogcast for a completely nonspecific delay.  I'm taking a blog hiatus and, until further notice, will be posting only to my "Alter Ego," which you can see if you login

You may still e-mail me anytime. 

Thank you, again, for visiting.  CUL8ER! 

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